I’ve been trying to write this in a manner suitable for posting but haven’t felt comfortable so I wrote it to (a few friends).
In my personal opinion, I think the current tribe.net environment is great for creating a loving encouraging environment for beginners. I wouldn’t change that.
I do feel we lack a forum for a constructive analytical dialogue. I think even the term “constructive criticism” was ill received in the whole tribe dialogue which is why I’m now using “analytical dialogue”. I want collaborators. I think we need analytical discussion if we want to continue to grow. Effusive praise isn’t a dialogue.
I’ve been carefully reading this thread and Carloeena’s blog (which she reposted in the hooper’s journal and in the hula hooping tribe). I don’t feel comfortable posting my opinions on tribe for fear of offending. That fact alone makes me wonder why we are creating such a delicate environment. Where are we allowed to have an analytical discussion? It seems unwelcome.
When I posted my L.I.B. video, everyone was super encouraging. That was nice. Then Mike Icon, a poi spinner, posted a comment on youtube and gave it a thumbs down saying that I need to control my speed. I was upset and pissed thinking “who the hell is he”. It took me months to incorporate that feedback but in retrospect, that bit of advice helped me grow more than any of the praise (yes I did need the praise too in order to encourage me to keep going). Now I’ve developed a whole theory on high contrast motions, changing speed quickly in order to emphasize the ends of the spectrum, etc.
By only praising on tribe I think were building a lot of fragile egos. In no other aspect of my life would I have taken mild criticism like Mike Icons so poorly. My architecture ideas get shot down all the time. No big deal. I come up with another idea. I continue to create.
Hooping.org isn’t a dialogue; it is what the editor decides to show us. Tribe.net is the only place any dialogue at all happens but it has strongly enforced standards that are conducive to some things and not to others.
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